Apologetics Toolkit: Tips for the Apologetic Life #05

This continues the Apologetics Toolkit series on: Tips for the Apologetic Life. The goal behind this series of 5 tips is to provide a few ideas on how to take the ideas studied in apologetics and apply them to “real life” situations. This particular tip has to do with who you are.
Tool #05: Character Matters

1. Motivation
Why do apologetics? Why defend the faith? For some, it would seem that winning arguments and scoring points in a debate is a strong motivation. There are some whose motivation is pride and selfish ambition (Phil. 1:15). However, a love for Christ and a love for others should be our motivation (Matt. 22:36-40). It does not matter how much we know if it is lacking a spirit of love and a genuine heart for others (1 Cor. 13:1-7). Having a right motivation cannot be faked – it must be from the heart (Rom. 12:9, Prov. 4:23). 1 Peter 3:15a: “But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord,” – this is foundational to a defense of the faith. 
2. Fruit of the Spirit
To defend the faith with arguments and reason is essential. But if the fruits of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23) are lacking in a believer’s life, good arguments are tainted and weakened by poor character. In fact, the hypocritical character of many believers does great damage to the Church and hinders the open reception of the Gospel. Believers should be examples to follow, not examples to avoid (1 Tim. 4:12b). 1 Peter 3:16 is often neglected; the Christian’s character ought to shame those who would slander Christ.
3. Tone
1 Peter 3:15 also includes this admonition: “But do this with gentleness and respect.” The tone of our interaction as defenders of the faith is just as important as the strength of our arguments. Proverbs 15:1: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” The manner in which apologetics is done is part of the apologetic. This springs from a heart changed by Christ and a character that is actively cultivated. (2 Pet. 1:5-8)
4. Christlikeness
Apologetics is that branch of theology which seeks to provide a rational justification for the truth claims of the Christian faith.(1) However, doing apologetics simply involves being a Christian – and being Christlike. The tools of knowledge, education, arguments, and answers… what good can these really be without Christlikeness? Your character matters.
What does this look like in a in everyday life? It looks like this:
Love Jesus with all your heart. Love people and care for them. Be prayerful, devoted, and have a godly character. When interacting with people, let your manner and tone be respectful and humble. Ultimately, your goal is Christlikeness.
What was last year’s post? It’s a Paul Copan interview.

(1) William Lane Craig, Reasonable Faith (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books, 2008), p. 15.

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Brian Auten is the founder emeritus of Apologetics315. He is also director of Reasonable Faith Belfast. Brian holds a Masters degree in Christian Apologetics and has interviewed over 150 Christian apologists. His background is in missions, media direction, graphic design, and administration. Brian started Apologetics315 in 2007 to be an apologetics hub to equip Christians to defend the faith.

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